My wife has started answering me back. What is the best way to deal with the problem?

We have been married for five years & she has now started answering me back when I tell her to do something. Domestic violence will get me into trouble with the cops, so how can I make her be more obedient?

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1. HAHAAAHAHAHAH... when you figure it out, let the rest of us know.
2. You can't
3. try giving her respect then maybe she will respect u back. my husband cant comprehend this one either.
4. Deport to a third world country where women have no rights.
5. Shut up.
6. First of all she is not a pet or a child. She soed not need to be ordered around. It's wonderful she has finally come to her senses huh? Sorry bud
7. hey where have you been have you checked the marriage vows lately.they are for you both. you are to be respectfull to all. you aren't to her why should she be to you. you do not order her around like a piece of shit. i would suggest you get into counceling very fast. go ahead hit her and then she can put you in jail that would teach you i would think.
8. Yes, you do have a problem. As you say, one can't thump them anymore, so I would do something like not giving her an allowance, or something like that. If she can't have any money to get her hair done; coffee with the girls; see a movie or so - well, that should rein her back into gear. P.S. That is, if you haven't already imposed those restrictions on her!
9. "she has now started answering me back when I tell her to do something" "What is the best way to deal with the problem?" Simple...quit telling her what to do..it's not your place nor is it your right.
10. TIME FOR YOU TO GROW UP...WOMEN DON'T NEED TO BE OBEDIENT. RELATIONSHIPS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE 50-50... IF YOU WANT AN OBEDIENT PERSON...DIVORCE YOUR WIFE AND MARRY YOUR COUSIN...SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE AN INBREED TO ME... YOU DON'T "TELL SOMEONE TO DO SOMETHING"... IF SHE TOLD YOU TO STOP BEING "UGLY" COULD YOU DO IT???
11. That's your fault for letting her out of the ankle iron. God.. men are so stupid.
12. Do not tell her to do something. Request her. Watch for few months. If no improvement, go for divorce. Good luck.
13. Well, this isn't medieval times where wives are expected to follow their husband's wishes. Your wife is not a dog or a slave that you can order around, either. She is answering you back cuz she's had enough. It's time that you give her respect and show her that she is your PARTNER. To JO...I'm from a third world country and I have rights.
14. tell her when she is quiet your "member" grows
15. You have to remember she is a human being, not your slave or your property/possession. She needs to be her own person, as do you. If you can't make things fair for the both of you then maybe you should seek outside help (couples therapy?). Marriage is not gaining a slave, you need to respect her and you will in turn earn her respect. The best way to get a woman to do what you want her to is to be as loving and kind, respectful and generous as you possibly can. Isn't that much better than hitting her for being a human being with a brain of her own?
16. Give her a divorce and let her find someone who will cherish her. "Problem" solved.
17. Are you for real? You really are in the Stoneage. Get a grip and do her a favor. Leave her so she doen't have to put up with your pre-abusive ass.
18. That's because it has been deemed "Opposite Year," you froot loop.
19. Leave her it will be the best gift you could ever give her!
20. with hold sex from her, that's what we do to u guys when we want something or are trying to get u to do what we want. If it works for us it should work for u too (ha ha ha)
21. You are a cave man in another world. I fell very sorry for your wife.